So, if you haven’t heard of the term “spaz-attack” before, it was a term we used as kids to describe someone who’s body movements were comical or “off centre”. This mainly referred to a situation where kids were playing team sports and there was always that one kid who just could not catch the ball, pass the ball, hit the ball or run where they were supposed to. Or even that kid that couldn’t run 100 metres without tripping over, frequently at the entertainment of everyone watching.
Before the medical term “dyspraxia”, Sol’s condition was known as “Clumsy Child Syndrome”. Just let that sink in…..So much negative connotation with that but also, not enough information on all the ways dyspraxia can affect an individual. One of the best short YouTube videos I found early on that helped to describe Sol’s challenges to teachers, sports coaches and specialists that would be working with him, was this: What is Dyspraxia?
There were usually TWO kinds of outcomes for the kids that lived this every day. 1) the kid that started to shrink away from physical activity that would expose their incompetence to preserve any shred of self esteem they had left 2) that kid that relished in the attention and was able to turn their frequent faux pas into a comic show. I feel like Sol hovers between the two right now.
When Sol was 6 weeks old, we started him swimming.
After an early diagnosis for Delayed Visual Maturation, we learnt that swimming would be particularly beneficial for his brain development and physical co-ordination. This has been an activity that Sol continues to this day. Sol has had some really great swim coaches who provide him with the empathy and guidance that he needs to become a competent swimmer but more importantly, retain self confidence which is vital when living with a diagnosed challenge.
I will admit, I find it tough to accept that Sol isn’t playing football or rugby with his age group peers right now. Granted we are in 2020 (sounds like COVID-19) and there are no organised kids sports running, he isn’t missing out. Sol did play after school football last year and really enjoyed it but I could see he would get frustrated when he missed the ball or wasn’t sure where he needed to be on the field. His coaches were so great and inclusive that Sol would show up every week without a grumble, so I knew that despite his co-ordination and spatial challenges, he felt good about being there.
Right now, Sol is BIG on basketball. And, I gotta say, he’s pretty good. IF and WHEN we can get him on a basketball court, this might be the sport for him! We have been challenging him to bounce 100 bounces while counting to 100 – this helps with his focus, co-ordination AND math. Multi-tasking is a really hard thing to do for someone with dyspraxia but he can do it!
One of the most well known sports personalities that has been diagnosed with dyspraxia is Ellis Genge who played rugby for the England Rugby Team. You can tell from the video that not being diagnosed at an early age affected how he felt about himself but in the end, sport saved him: Ellis Genge Rugby Player.
AND I can’t wrap up this post without giving a HUGE shout out to our friends Marissa and Rafael who run Movimento Capoeira Academy for gifting Sol the the joy of movement, martial arts, music and friends to hang out with. You guys are the BEST!]